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Kind of ruins the friendship a little, I've had this happen a few times.

Is he cute tho

Ah yes.... unrequited love.

Well I say give him a chance to sweep you off your feet then make your decision afterwards.

@Chapstick It really does.. How did it go for you? Did you reject them? Like, I feel bad rejecting him, but it's just that I see him as a REALLY good friend, and I have since we were 8 years old.. >_> He is kinda hot, not gonna lie. XD Tall and blonde with blue eyes.. <3 But it just seems kinda weird to me to date one of my besties.. >_>

Must be nice to have someone that likes you:-( I'll be forever alone

@Lulu Indeed.. Well, I think I might give him a chance, since I'd feel so bad just full-on rejecting him. I think that'd ruin our friendship even more than if I gave him a shot, and it didn't work out. I said I was going to think about it for a few days and get back to him on it.

@KasumiLover69 Awwh, you will definitely not be forever alone! <3 You're such an amazing guy, any gal would be lucky to have you! :D <3 Also, it is nice to have someone like me.. When it is your best guy-friend, however.. It's more awkward and complicated than nice.. XD

Heh, I could imagine Having someone confess they like you is one thing, but it's so awkward when it's your childhood friend. What did you say to him, if it's not too much to ask?:-0

Luckily mine were all girls and I'm gay lol

If you go into this be completely clear like "whatever happens I do not want to lose the great friendship we already have"

I just told him that I loved him as a friend, but I'm not sure if we could manage going from best friends to boyfriends after being the best of friends for so many years. I also told him that it was a pretty big decision, and that I need a few days to make up my mind. I might as well give him a chance.. Who knows, I might like it. They say the best relationships starts with years of friendship.. >_>

@Chapstick Oooh, lmao. XD Well, that made it easier. XD My current best girl-friend had a crush on me before we became besties, lmao. XD Yeah, that's the thing, I'm just so scared of losing him, because I really love him as a friend. It's so scary jeopardizing our friendship. >_>

Say it this way "You're my loyal friend and I'd like us to stay that way forever. Relationship will change our views, so I don't want that to happen. Still, if you wanna bang, I'm open for tonight."

Oh I do remember having this happen with my best friend and I awkwardly danced around it to the point he knew it wasn't going to happen. It helps I was with someone at the time. I rarely think about it and even forgot it now. xD I didn't handle it great you handled it better so far than me

OMFG, @SoftCabbage !! XD That was some legitimately great advice, until the last sentence! X'D

I'm tryin' to make it as smooth as possible to make the person who like you don't feel friendzoned =P

@Chapstick OMG, I can just picture it right now! X'D Well, yeah, of course if you're with someone, that somehow makes it easier to say no. XD I am pretty good at handling awkward situations most of the times, other times I become completely frozen.. XD This time, it was thankfully a case of the former.

@SoftCabbage Lmao, I guess you can look at it that way... X'D