Well, I mean if you go into a lobby expecting all of your counters to work and punishes/ducking/etc., you're gonna leave pretty disappointed. So that's why I figure you should just play for fun online (and a little competition, of course), but save offline for the times when you expect to win.
Try to keep an open mind. At the very least anything is better than what we have now and we know they are working on the netcode. It has to be better in some way.