Oh, I get it. Metaphors within metaphors. You're saying that in order to get past tournament jitters and stream monsters, you must become a stream monster to understand the psyche of their nature to better equip yourself mentally.
Get a better ISP, a better router, weed out the bad sports one player at a time, play in private lobbies with people you KNOW you're cool with, maintain a positive attitude, and don't be a whining douchebag.