I think Hitomi & Marie's things are parries, since neither puts the opponent in lv2 stun like Eliot Leifang and Kokoro's sabaki's. I could be wrong though.
A sabaki is an attack-based parry which deals damage. A regular parry normally only grants frame advantage and deals no damage itself. By that logic, Marie's 4P+K would be a parry and Hitomi's 3H and 9H would be sabaki's.