Should I Hide Being an Asshole?

[southallmonty]

I'll say this, if you're pissed, don't show it. Find an outlet if someone or something, in some cases, pisses you off.

Firstly, make sure it's a Damn Good reason. Else you'll be labeled as childish. And no one wants that, believe me.

Secondly, assuming that person or thing isn't purposely and/or consistently picking at you, move on. Don't speak to them and don't start with them. That's how you turn into the one asshurt and/or salty.

You don't have to change, but you do need to control. To put all this simply. One can be mad. One can feel stress over just about anything. It's what you let it do to your judgment that matters.

 

[Argentus]

Being an asshole is stupid. Being blunt or direct is not.

Unless you try to use being blunt as an excuse for being an asshole like my coworker does. Goes out if his way to be a dick, says things that don't need to be said, then tries to defend himself by going "I'm not being rude, I'm just being honest!"


But really, as someone with a temper, I've learned to just switch from being a hardass, to being a wiseass. It may get on some peoples nerves once in a while but its preferable to being a hated asshole. Kinda fun being a loveable asshole though lol.



Just learn to find silver linings and the funny side if everything to keep a smile on your face. Go watch Disney movies, spongebob, go on YouTube binges of shows you watched as a kid, listen to calmer music, treat yourself to a nice restaraunt etc etc.

Instead if being someone you're not, just go out of your way to keep from being pissed all the time. Don't fake happy, be happy. Don't look for things to be angry at, look fke things yi be happy at. When I'm at the mall I always calm down because of all the babies and toddlers playing around, cute little boogers make me smile, I love kids.

Or like when playing online I've taken to listening to house music so I don't lose my shit because I get frustrated easy.

 

[Dark-truth]

When it comes to school or playing games, who cares, but now I'm at a professional point in my life and I'm worried how my attitude will transition to that. I'm not good at hiding it when I'm pissed, I'm generally not that friendly unless I can find some common ground with whoever I am talking to. I am mean because people have been mean to me and I feel like I have the right to be an asshole.

Recently I ruined something for my sister because I was an asshole, I was in the wrong I don't need to explain it. But at this point I feel like I should start pretending to be someone I'm not. Should I keep being myself and hope it all works out like it does for some people? Or should I be fake as fuck and make more money?

My sister tells me to play the game, but I don't actually know if that's what I want. How do you guys contain yourself after someone pisses you off? Do you blow up like you rightfully should or do you hold it in with some crazy technique?

your not that special you act like your the only one that ppl are mean against srsly your selfish and why do u ruin things for ur sis its her life her choices her mind so just keep out of her business idc if u gonna hate me but im telling the truth even if it sounds rude but thats how i am if u cant accept me for me then screw you sir anyways this isnt about me just stop acting like a douche just because ppl acted like a douche to you idk your past but dont act like a douche because ppl are gonna hate you and you'll be lonely and you'll regret it i acted like a douche too and i regret every second of it