well, the reason why I say she/he/it is because so many people tell me different things about "it", whether it's a guy pretending to be a girl or a girl or a really flamboyant guy and this DOESN'T surprise me at all because DOA has a thing for attracting people like this it's kinda annoying and I've seen this before >_> So, I tend to avoid these asshole's like the plague as you do.
I remember playing Helena in a room against someone and she joined and started talking madshit about my Helena. Ok, first off, Helena isn't my main. Secondly, no one was saying anything to her or provoked her in any way, it was out of nowhere and straight up RUDE. I think my Helena is pretty fair and I can hold my own against people, but I don't claim to be super duper amazing with her(It's easy to LOOK good with Helena because she's flashy and has a crazy mind game). In fact, a lot of the stuff I know with Helena, I picked up from Codemaster92163 back in the day. When she joined and beat me and critiqued every move I did, I was saying, "Wow bitch, you need to back off, your Helena ain't no shit either! I know plenty of Helena's that would make yours look like crap, so quit acting high and mighty. Of course she thinks she's the best and ask's who?(I'm sitting here thinking, really?) Codemaster, Mamba and a few others would make your Helena look like garbage. I totally avoid her/him/it, the most out of anyone. Such a shit talker.