But even if this behavior supported your claim, I don't see why you would "like it." At this point, it looks like you're trying to dismiss criticism by spinning it into something where you are the victim. But you weren't really victimized, from what I can tell. I didn't watch your stream, but...
It wasn't "behind your back," since no effort was made to keep the discussion from you. It's true that the discussion wasn't presented directly to you, but why would it be? Kyo wasn't seeking your input since he already heard it on your livestream. He was interested in sharing the observed event...
DSP shenanigans shouldn't be used to indicate a player's experience with a game any more than Jeffrey Dahmer should be used to demonstrate the average American citizen's experience in the U.S.