This community also has members that are overtly sensitive that jump to irrational conclusions based on their emotions. Not that that's a terrible thing, but almost every member in this community is actually out to help you more than they are to hurt you.
It's also not a terrible thing to avoid making unnecessary comments, as your second point is redundant.
But that is neither here nor there.
Back on topic because I feel there is more I can add.
I think the problem most run into when facing an Elliot is that his strings are a bit more ambiguous (if you don't know them) A lot of his punches that look mid are actually high's and vice versa. Kokoro on the other hand isn't so ambiguous you can see many of her moves and tell where to guard or hold.
I don't know about Eliot, but you can also sidestep much of Kokoro's offense.
I would also state that Eliot can handle pressure better with his parry game and that 9P jab that just screams (stahp it)
I feel that Kokoro falls to pressure, because she is pretty slow and unless you get lucky with a jab, a good free cancel will disrupt anything she does to try and get out of pressure. But I feel that, Kokoro can pimp the stun game better than Eliot.