Oral only sounds boring tbh >.> I think for straight or gay relationships more should be done, at least if you're comfortable. Like I honestly don't think I'll have sex with a girl until I'm married because I don't wanna mini KasumiLover any time soon, and accidents can happen even if you pull out or use protection. xD with a guy there's no danger but even then I would have to go out to eat a couple of times before I get interested in more intimate stuff, although kissing and some undressing and some "mutual pleasure" type stuff I could get with, but actual sex with me requires at least a while of romantic stuff xD
I'm not a prude but in terms of relationships I'm kinda like a mix of Venus vacation Fiona with a sprinkle of Tales of Symphonia Emil sprinkled in
To me it is very dependent on my mood. If someone has slighted me or if I'm generally stressed my mind knows that sex is a good option to tackle it.
Technically I should be more careful like you. But the feeling sometimes overrides that concern.
I don't do 100 squats a day just for myself.